ES 001: 10K Social Media Recruiting with Jessica Higdon

ES 001: 10K Social Media Recruiting with Jessica Higdon

In this episode, I have the pleasure of launching my first podcast interviewing Millionaire Jessica Higdon. We delve into the world of understanding what it’s like to go from working at a sales job to transitioning to working for herself. Jessica shares some powerful nuggets that you deserve to hear and jot down for future reference. You can visit Jessica’s blog and connect with her at


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The Talk – The Birds and The Bees

So it wasn’t long before I got reminders from my 9 year old son Adam that I had to give “the Talk” to my 12 year old son, Cesar. Therefore, after several nags from Adam, I finally just pulled the trigger and sat down with my oldest son ‘Little Cesar’ to give him the talk about the “birds and the bees.” I will attribute the ignition of this conversation by one of my favorite childhood shows “The Wonder Years”. One night we were watching an episode where the high school coach drew out human body parts that I was able to explain later to my son on a white board.

One thing to note is that the idea of a parent from my semi-conservative upbringing is that we are to use our best judgement when dating a girl that we thought would be best for our future family. I dropped my experience of several girlfriends with my son on why I believe they didn’t work. I also told him the reason why I married Xochitl, his mom and why our marriage has lasted so long (13+ years), sometimes you have to deal with many things with marriage, you have to try to understand your partner, last week I hired the local domestic cleaners because I know Xochitl was getting to a point where she was not able to handle that many things at the same time.

I firmly believe for this marriage to have worked so long it had to be explained in great detail to my son. It’s a Jesus Christ centered marriage with the fullness of The Catholic Faith. We have instilled the same values of our Catholic faith to our 3 sons. It wasn’t always that way though. I was a cradle Catholic and living a very secular life. Maybe too extreme to the point where I almost lost my marriage.

As an engineer, I always find ways to fix things. Therefore, I knew what was missing in my life wasn’t more TV show watching, or more chasing a new business opportunity, or starting over with a new relationship. It came down to one thing and one thing only… We needed to strengthen our understanding of what it means to be a Catholic and a Catholic family. That is where I found peace. That is where I found to be the most humble.

For those that have a preconceived notion of what it means to be a Catholic because of the other 40,000+ denominations that took off from the Catholic religion… Simply put, it’s the Fullness of the Christian faith that Jesus started with Peter in year 33 (Matthew 16:18). It was like that for 1500 years until “Man” screwed it up.

I share with my son that I remember dating a few girls in my young adult years that felt trapped because they “wanted to be free to do whatever they wanted to do without guilt.” Therefore, they either made fun of people at church or they simply made fun of me for wanting to take them to Sunday mass.

For those that understand that it’s a “Mortal Sin” to miss mass on Sunday, don’t miss mass. We go because like oxygen, the soul needs more of Jesus to breathe. Catholic means “Universal” Christians. Meaning everyone, even you. I remember one of my ex-girlfriends throwing it in my face stating “You think you’re perfect because you and your family go to church on Sundays…” As much as that hurt, I simply didn’t know how to respond to that at the time — But I will now. I simply go to mass on Sundays because I know that I am far from perfect. I need more of Christ in my life because I live in a secular world surrounded by folks that are lost and need prayer too.

I know what you were expecting wasn’t my conversation about faith in my son but just like a secular person would try to be their children’s best friend, I was just being a Father. I believe the role of a Father and a Mother in a family household stands strong as each has their own roles to complete for the family, In my case I was the one who made sure to have the atlas ceramics range of tools for my house. It’s almost as natural as not having each other compete for a win of a job. Mom doesn’t cut half the grass and dad doesn’t cut the other half. Everyone naturally should know their role through the family. There’s a sense of peace and understanding when that is put in place.

I spoke to Cesar regarding his body changing. His natural desire to like girls and have desires for dating them. Additionally, I told him it’s a lot easier when you meet a girl who is from a Catholic family and you both can grow together in the faith “after you finish your educational goals.”

The reason I married Xochitl was because I saw a loving desire for family in her as I had. I wanted children and I knew someday I will be sitting with my son having this talk about the importance of family, the importance of woman to come from a good family, and if it’s God’s will to have children and pay it forward.

I use to think it was the woman’s role to take care of these things and the man goes out and makes the cheddar. After studying many books like Men’s Spirituality by Philip Chavez, I know that it’s important for a father to step up to their children and build them on the rock.

Love them. Raise them with good morals and values.  Show them how to respect and treat their elders with respect. Be less about selfishness and be more about serving and loving others.

Share this message with everyone you care about because the common sense thing to do these days is to give up. I like to think I’m unique, I’m uncommon, I’m different. In reality it’s the way it should be. Isn’t it?
May the Love, Respect, and the Light of Jesus Christ be with you. Amen.

Cesar Ramirez



Why Cesar Ramirez Voted for Trump

My thoughts on the debate. Rarely do I talk about Politics on my personal blog. For most of you this was a battle between Democrats and Republicans. For me, this was a spiritual war between saving the United States of America and Satan’s bride who goes against everything I believe in and that of humanity.

I shared with my love ones truth. I read this information about what was about to come about over a year ago from a Catholic Convert name Charlie Johnston. He’s been visited by a Heavenly Angel since he was a kid and he was given a message to share with the world.

You can read more about his writings here: As stated in this post I shared with my brothers and sister, I told them to prepare over a few months ago. The Rescue is coming at the end of 2017 for Christians.

Even with truth, some followed my advice, others pushed me aside. It’s easy to say “in your face” or “I told you so” with all the proven WikiLeaks facts of emails of Hillary’s corruption, but even with that there was an excuse. It was subconscious programming… hatred. It was a race card… it was stuff CNN or Univision or all the other corrupt mainstream media said about the entrepreneur man that goes against their agenda.

I grew up as a Democrat and that’s all I knew from my family. I like many in my family, was a “lukewarm Catholic.” I didn’t let go of control. I didn’t have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. My daily walk truly sucked. I even believed that change would fix the wide spread issues of equality by voting for Obama in 2008. For the last 8 years I’ve seen the Tech industry, the family unity, small businesses, and average Joe’s be destroyed by Globalist ideology.

I too wanted change as my friends and family, but opening doors that go against that of the Laws of God have torn us apart even more. Those that wanted their rights have only turned around to try to destroy history of what brought us here today. We may not all agree on Trump because he’s not your polished politician. Give him a chance. America voted and it proves folks aren’t looking for the talker. They’re looking for the doer. He isn’t funded by the corrupt system. Most of you work for a CEO that had dreams of building his/her own company. His real world experience will make us great again. God willing.

My own sister who’s a Medical Doctor I feared for because Obama Care is a disaster. It has destroyed a lot of small doctor practices. Fortunately, she’s not in that situation and works for a prestigious Hospital. As much as she doesn’t want to admit it, she knows Obama Care wasn’t a good idea. I used it before I had my current insurance and it really destroyed my small business. I had to drive 45 mins to see the only available family doctor on that dynamic disaster plan. It’s horrible for entrepreneurs or anyone without medical insurance.

I’m part of the 3% club in my family who voted for Trump. I speak up because I’m tired. I’m tired of making everyone happy and following the sheeple. We all must Rage Against the Globalist Machine. It’s unclear to me why the blinders are on for the 97% but it’s not my job to change anyone. It is my job to present the information and speak truth. In the end we all know who wins.

I hit rock bottom a few times in my life… Emotionally, financially, and spiritually. I wasn’t the sharpest tool in the shed with school and having 4.0s. I had my share of struggles of losing it all. I didn’t have to kill or cheat anyone to get to where I am at today. I do enjoy the underdog stories of seeing that struggling everyday American work to the top. Whether you’re white, black, brown, green, blue or yellow you deserve to achieve your dreams.

I’m sad to say it, what Obama has created is a disaster for our country. This country was founded on Christian fundamentals whether you accept it or not. Branding #BlackLivesMatter creates race separation. It will be awhile for those changes to get put back into place. Only time will tell if there is hope left for the bleeding bucket that was left when Bush was in office with 9/11. We have not recovered from the open border disasters and frankly, I’ve never been around to see a president that runs against the globalist corruption. This is pretty sweet.

I as a Mexican American am proud of my heritage. With that said, I am a Patriot American first regardless of my race.  My grandpa came here from Mexico in the 50s for a better way of life. If I wave a flag around that I’m Mexican will only create conflict and separation. That goes for any other prideful act that involves Race, Sex, etc. I want our borders protected for the safety of my family. I’m sure most American’s do too.

I pray we all come in peace with each other. Thank you for everyone who believed in me. For believing in our Freedom. For the greater glory of tomorrow.

Now Mr. Donald Trump, 45th President, let us know how WE the people can serve you to fulfill your promises to destroy Obamacare, Common Core, and all the disasters that affect the freedom of families. For the home school families that teach their fundamentals to their children, today is a victory for our freedom. To the parents that choose not to have mandatory vaccinations, today is our freedom. Let’s come together as one and make America Great Again.

I’m Proud to be an American Catholic. Keep fighting the good fight my friends.

God Bless America,

Cesar Ramirez


#MAGA, #DrainTheSwamp

Donald Trump’s First Tweet as President:


Donald John Trump is the President of the United States and a businessman. He is scheduled to take office as the 45th President on January 20, 2017. Wikipedia

Born: June 14, 1946 (age 70), Queens, New York City, NY

Candidate for: President of the United States

Party: Republican Party

Running mate: Mike Pence

Spouse: Melania Trump (m. 2005), Marla Maples (m. 1993–1999), Ivana Trump (m. 1977–1992)

Trumps Response to the issues that I looked for most:


Every American deserves access on How to market a dental practice, affordable health care, not just insurance. Obamacare has failed on cost and quality of health care. It must be repealed. America needs a patient-centered health care system, allowing families and their doctors to be primary decision makers. Provide for the sale of health insurance across state lines.


Economy and Jobs

Reform the tax code and trade policies to make it easier to hire, invest, build, grow, produce, and manufacture in America. Stop China from stealing our jobs, renegotiate NAFTA, cut unneeded regulations and make America the best place in the world to do business. Putting America First—and not globalism—will keep jobs and wealth in America.


Every child in America deserves a great education and an opportunity to achieve their dreams. We will enhance education options for students through school choice and charters, and respect homeschoolers in their quest for educational alternatives. We will also make it easier for families to afford college so students aren’t buried in debt.

Nation Security

There are serious threats facing the United States, and American strength is the only way to ensure peace. We must rebuild our military, reform our intelligence agencies, and prepare our government for the security challenges of cyberspace.


Restore integrity to our immigration system by prioritizing the interests of Americans first. Enforce our immigration laws – at the border and at the workplace. Build a border wall and end sanctuary cities. Send criminal aliens home. Welcome those who embrace our way of life, but keep out immigrants and refugees who don’t through rigorous vetting.

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The internet is made of a small bits of keywords. So the specific keywords you use can mean the difference of turning a blog from no cash to cash money. I just hit my 20 year anniversary as a professional DJ.  I’ve done way too many events that I can count over the years.

I did take a break from DJing for about two years to focus on other projects specifically in internet marketing. Therefore, I feel compelled to share this story that will assist you in any business your heart desires to market.

So I bought my domain name many years ago. I converted it to a wordpress blog about 2010 because of all the cool tools that WordPress allows you to use for marketing. Interesting enough, I hadn’t written many blog posts until end of the year of 2015 when I got contracted a few gigs for company Holiday parties.

I have a form at that allowed me to capture a few leads after posting one blog post regarding Holiday party events that I did. That blog post lead into a few leads which after following up with them became my most profitable leads to date. One gal, runs a winery in the area and has over 47 weddings on the books this year alone. It’s going to be my busiest year in weddings. FYI, events of any type during a down or up economy are going to happen because people get married and their children eventually do and so on. I will also hire a limo service on gold country and el dorado wine.

The moral of the story is, it was done with free marketing. Free traffic and they all found me from a blog post that was written for the intent of attracting visitors from Google. Google had ignored me 2 year prior when I wasn’t DJing. It could be “thoughts become things” mixed with the passion I have for writing.

Therefore, I’m going to encourage every single one of you that write often. Make your blog posts at least 500 words on a particular topic. This can work for ANY topic of any type. If you’re a business, a non-profit, etc, you can write about anything, but make sure to keep it geared towards the subject at hand that will bring the quality of people you deserve on your list. How do you capture a list? Well there’s a free plugin called Mailpoet that you can adapt to WordPress and that can email up to 2000 leads which is plenty to get started.

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