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It’s Ok To Make Mistakes. Fail. Double Your Rate.

Posted on by Cesar Ramirez

Each days of our lives, it’s inevitable we will make mistakes. However, everything happens for a reason, so we should never be afraid of making mistakes. What matters most is that we leave the past behind, and simply learn from it. Of course, try not to bounce back over the same mistakes. Admittedly, as human beings, we can repeatedly make the same mistakes. It’s a fact! None can deny it, even a perfectionist makes the same mistakes thrice :).

Plenty of us think in the form of “could of, should of” which will flash into your mind after making a mistake. Makes come and go. Failures come and go. I was once told by a mentor of mine Mr. Jim Rohn, double your rate of failure to really see results. Whether financially, health, or any situation you want to get a stat from.

My point is, it’s indeed a waste of time trying to figure out everything about a decision you made, and realized that it was a big mistake. If you could only turned back time, you would not make that same decision again…From the statement itself, if you could turn back time, the problem is that no one can turn back time. History repeat itself and it will continue to repeat itself. That’s the only chance you have to make the right decision, once the same scenario occurs in your life.

Lets talk about how we are being changed with our wrong decisions in life 🙂

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At first we feel so upset, and useless. As if we want to simply sleep all day, hoping that when we wake up everything is under control.
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Second, we feel guilty for committing mistakes, and worst, if someone has been affected by our wrong moves, we would not only feel guilty, we would surely feel like we want to burry ourselves.
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Third, we want an instant change…we become very eager to change our identity.

The great thing is that once we’re done contemplating over our mistakes, and realize its time to move on, we become a better person, we become more positive, much stronger, much willing to face defeat, more appreciative over small things..and of course more forgiving. Yet, if we are the type of people who don’t welcome changes and corrections in life, then past should simply be left behind, or else we might do something terrible on top of our simple mistakes.

Leave the past behind, and let us not dwell on it but that doesn’t mean you’d be ashamed of the mistakes you have committed. You don’t have to be ashame of anything, for as long as you’ve learned from it and have already move on. Of course, it is also important that you have commited to make yourself a better person. Asking your mentor, your idol, your elders to teach you how they survive from all odds in life, will help you realize that life must go on, even after a shameful mistakes you have committed.

Surround yourself, with God fearing friends with very positive attitude. If it’s necessary for you to change your environment, so be it. Go for it! Read books about how to handle your consequences of your very own mistakes. Or read more about enhancing your personalities and dealing with your past 🙂 Live life to the fullest, you can only do that, if you will forgive yourself, and just learned from where you’ve failed.

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The importance of communicating with yourself.

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I always believe that everyone in every part of the world deserves space for themselves and to be alone. When we are totally burnt out, we require to be free of all surroundings. The best suggestion I can give, whenever you’re in this stage, is to try an interpersonal communication. Interpersonal communication is the act of talking with yourself; or in other words, self-talk. If you have tried talking to yourself, without using your mouth, just the brain, then you are actually doing an interpersonal communication. It would be great if you could do that with your eyes closed and of course in a very cozy place.

However, if you feel like shouting while talking to yourself, you may do so. Avoid doing it in public, or people may think you are out of your  mind :-). All of us has had our share of insanity. Yet, keep in mind, all of us communicate with ourselves whether we’re aware of it or not.

When we talk to ourselves, we have to do it optimistically and not the other way around. If we let negative thoughts consume us while we talk to ourselves, then I bet you won’t feel good, and your self esteem will be totally torn into pieces. It’s easy to believe that you cannot stop negative words and thoughts. However, if you want to understand why you’re feeling bad, open your eyes to the negative conversation you’re having with yourself and you’ll find the answer you are looking for! Be aware of the people you are surrounding yourself with. The conversations that you are becoming apart of.

There are many ways to communicate with yourself. We can read books that enhance our personality, we can join yoga classes, we can talk to our mentor,  or simply write down the list of our dreams, goals, visions and missions in life. Everything will be on track, if you let your mind, heart and body be in perfect and positive condition.  Change your thoughts, change your words, and change the conversation you’re having with yourself.  Don’t allow yourself to be downgraded, criticized, and judged by you. If you are doing this to yourself, imagine how you’re allowing others to treat you.  You will absolutely unequivocally attract people the way you see yourself.

We need to compliment and love ourselves unconditionally.  Yet by doing this, we need to have self control and balance so we won’t be conceited in anyway. There is nothing wrong with complimenting yourself, talking kindly to yourself, ignoring the negative thoughts, and humbly appreciating your uniqueness. There is nothing conceited about that at all; as a matter of fact, it’s very inspiring!

Allow me to encourage you to talk to yourself, be positive, let other people see your bright aura. Let them be blessed by your gracefulness about yourself :). You you don’t know yourself, who will? Follow your passion. 

In closing,  acknowledge your failures and learn from them.  Some of my best lessons were taught when I hit a fork in the road. You can either take them as character building elements, or you can duel on them. You do not want to duel on them. Those who focus and live in the past stay there. You energy should be 100% on the present because it’s what you can control.

Saludos a todos mis amigos en el Internet

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So my mentor, Cedrick Harris said to me… “Watch what everybody is doing…and do the complete opposite.” So then it hit me. I duplicate what the 5, 6, and 7 figure earners do online, and do it in Spanish.” I’m going to have fun this week. My first spanish video and green screen on that. It didn’t come out too bad.

Jim Rohn – Life is Like The Seasons (Hip-Hop Video Remix)

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A video remix of some inspirational audio samples from the God Father of Personal Development, Mr. Jim Rohn. Every great mentor leads back to Jim Rohn in one way or another. There is no other quite like him. It’s because of him that my wife and I improved on our relationship. It all started from 1 audio or a book a day. Then it compounded over time and I do not even recognize myself from where I use to be. I stay and operate in the present (thank you Jeffery Combs). If you were inspired and in tears like I was, I would appreciate if you shared this video with your friends.