Habit of Biting Nails

For years since I was a young kid, I remember biting my nails. It’s out of anxiety, nervousness, or whatever that dirty little habit came from. I finally broke the code to stop biting my nails. For 3 months now, I have not bitten off a single nail. I’m proud of breaking this habit.

It all started from listening to an audio from Tony Robbins where a client said, I will refuse to work with you if you cannot control your nail biting habit. It made me think of myself and my posture. How can anyone take me seriously if I don’t control that habit. Therefore, I made a decision to let me nails grow and I have not bitten one off since that decision was firmly set.

So if you’re in the same position I was in, and care to start having nice looking nails, this guide may help avoid further nail biting.

Step 1) Think of a change of mindset when feeling nervous. If you feel like you’re in a sticky crummy situation and you must go bite your nail, think of something that makes you happy. Change that mind quick because it will result in a grinding of nails :-).

Step 2) Start to listen to some positive audio like I have been doing. Take yourself out of the negative environments like people at work, friends, family, etc.  It’s sad, but these scenarios can and will affect your living situation.

Step 3) Get accustom to change. It’s ok to be different to be normal. I know that sounds a bit strange but think of yourself as the outsider so that you can live a normal life inside. I know sometimes I change my way of being for the best to stay away from negative situations. I have to change or else my life won’t. This has a lot to do with self-control of nail biting.

If you have any other advice on sharing with others, I’d like to hear them on how to stop nail biting. For now, I have broken one of my worse habits ever :-).

To Your Abundance,

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Type A Personalities and Ponzi Schemes

As you can see, I had to come out and let the truth out. Too many folks hide and try to spend energy on Type A Personalities.

Let’s look at type A people in more detail.

Type A folks have major issues around three key areas: time, money and dirt.

Type A’s and Issues surrounding time.

Type A people have limitless problems with time. Type A’s need to be on time, they need to avoid running out of time, they need to have a watch or clock handy so they can measure time, they invest time, measure the value of time spent and time left available. These folks have issues with deadlines, as they are restricting, yet they feel they must have them and they must be met. Time is a tool for measuring and a means of limiting, confining and defining. As such, time is important to someone who has always had to meet standards and deadlines for acceptance.

Issues with money.

Type A people have esteem issues, as they don’t base their value on solid ground but rather on meeting standards. As such, rather than by their inherent value as people, they value themselves and what they do by money. What’s it worth, what did it cost, how much do they earn, have and spend? They spend or give money as a way of showing love or affection. It is their empowerment and security. In relationships there is a medium of exchange and of acceptance with others and it is money.

Issues with dirt.

As the type A individual is perfectionist and of low self esteem they don’t want to have any association with dirt. Getting dirty makes them feel cheap and worthless. They need neat surroundings.

Remission.

Something like remission or over compensation can occur in which the type A personality may swing to the extreme opposite to cope. They may give away money to show they can, get dirty or do dirty jobs to confront their fears and may throw caution about time to the wind to set themselves free. Still you can see that they still are tied heavily to these issues.

Emotions.

Type A personalities may deny emotion or not know they have any. They may feel guilty for having or showing emotions as this would take them away from the source of real value for them which is to meet standards like a perfectly performing machine.

2nd Topic cover Ponzi Schemes (Cash Gifting). Strangely enough, a mutual friend gave me a call to share his
excitement about what he found. Honestly, the call itself smelled fishy and it totally did not make sense. There was no information to be found on the company online and the simple fact that someone would send in $2000 to receive $14,000 back in 3 weeks deserves a careful attention of a Scam/Ponzi Scheme. I sure hope that hard working folks don’t get duped into these systems. Money exchanging hands without a valid product or service with residual tied to it isn’t a system. Get rich schemes are the reason this country is in the sh*ts right now. We’ve lost the true vision of momentum of the compounding penny. Would you rather take $1mil or the compounding penny? In a month the compounding penny becomes over $5mil.  We just don’t think that way.

So what do you want to look for when investing your time away from work fulltime or parttime? Home based businesses are on the rise. There are a lot of legitimate ones and a lot of sketchy ones. You want to look for a business that the founder has a clean track record. 100% debt free a huge factor. NOT being publicly traded is a huge plus because the business is focused on making the executives happy, not their stock investors, plus they also have a Gadget Insurance covering them.

To Your Abundance,

Cesar Ramirez
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Cesar’s Monday Webinars start Tonight!

Hello my friends. Cesar Ramirez here. Looks
like the winner for the Enterpreneur’s webinar will
be Monday Nights (starting tonight)
at 5pmPST/8pmEST. Again
today’s topic will be about outsourcing and
how I have been able to outsource my work
over seas for cheap. Many folks complain
about not enough time to build their business,
well let me tell you that this will be crucial
for your business so you can leverage yourself
for pennies. Probably one of the most
important topics to any business owner for
any business.

Note: This will be a generic webinar
and there will be no pitching of companies so
feel free to have your downlines learn
from all this. You and your business will thank
me later. 🙂

I will leave 10-20mins open for Q&A.

Webinar info:

1.  Please join my Webinar.
https://www1.gotowebinar.com/register/404289416

2. You will be connected to audio using your computer’s microphone and speakers (VoIP).  A headset is recommended.

Or, you may select “Use Telephone” after joining the Webinar.

Dial 213-286-1201
Access Code: 467-266-317
Audio PIN: Shown after joining the meeting

Webinar ID: 404-289-416

To Your Abundance,

Cesar Ramirez
http://www.CesarRamirez.com
(951) 595-7758

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The importance of communicating with yourself.

I always believe that everyone in every part of the world deserves space for themselves and to be alone. When we are totally burnt out, we require to be free of all surroundings. The best suggestion I can give, whenever you’re in this stage, is to try an interpersonal communication. Interpersonal communication is the act of talking with yourself; or in other words, self-talk. If you have tried talking to yourself, without using your mouth, just the brain, then you are actually doing an interpersonal communication. It would be great if you could do that with your eyes closed and of course in a very cozy place.

However, if you feel like shouting while talking to yourself, you may do so. Avoid doing it in public, or people may think you are out of your  mind :-). All of us has had our share of insanity. Yet, keep in mind, all of us communicate with ourselves whether we’re aware of it or not.

When we talk to ourselves, we have to do it optimistically and not the other way around. If we let negative thoughts consume us while we talk to ourselves, then I bet you won’t feel good, and your self esteem will be totally torn into pieces. It’s easy to believe that you cannot stop negative words and thoughts. However, if you want to understand why you’re feeling bad, open your eyes to the negative conversation you’re having with yourself and you’ll find the answer you are looking for! Be aware of the people you are surrounding yourself with. The conversations that you are becoming apart of.

There are many ways to communicate with yourself. We can read books that enhance our personality, we can join yoga classes, we can talk to our mentor,  or simply write down the list of our dreams, goals, visions and missions in life. Everything will be on track, if you let your mind, heart and body be in perfect and positive condition.  Change your thoughts, change your words, and change the conversation you’re having with yourself.  Don’t allow yourself to be downgraded, criticized, and judged by you. If you are doing this to yourself, imagine how you’re allowing others to treat you.  You will absolutely unequivocally attract people the way you see yourself.

We need to compliment and love ourselves unconditionally.  Yet by doing this, we need to have self control and balance so we won’t be conceited in anyway. There is nothing wrong with complimenting yourself, talking kindly to yourself, ignoring the negative thoughts, and humbly appreciating your uniqueness. There is nothing conceited about that at all; as a matter of fact, it’s very inspiring!

Allow me to encourage you to talk to yourself, be positive, let other people see your bright aura. Let them be blessed by your gracefulness about yourself :). You you don’t know yourself, who will? Follow your passion. 

In closing,  acknowledge your failures and learn from them.  Some of my best lessons were taught when I hit a fork in the road. You can either take them as character building elements, or you can duel on them. You do not want to duel on them. Those who focus and live in the past stay there. You energy should be 100% on the present because it’s what you can control.

Jeffery Combs and Jerry Clark

I’m a huge fan of Mr. Jerry Clark. My coach Mr. Jeffery Combs has worked with Mr. Jerry Clark since 1991.  I am super excited to announce that Jeffery Combs and Jerry Clark will be under one roof alongside my great friend and business partner Mr. Casey Eberhart. You deserve to be at this event. Clear whatever you got going on and I will see you there. One of the reasons you deserve to be at events is because your business will prosper. It’s not magic. All the 5 and 6 and 7 figure earners have mastered the art of surrounding themselves with other like-minded indivuals. Again, if you want things to change, YOU must change. See you there.

More Heart Than Talent – Los Angeles, CA
August 21, 2010

Are you looking to Breakthrough some barriers in 2010? Don’t go it alone!!!

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Jeffery Combs and Special Guests Jerry Clark and Casey Eberheart bring
“More Heart Than Talent” to Los Angeles! This dynamic team of speakers will cover topics ranging from peak performance training, effective communication strategies, and how to increase your productivity and profitability in your Direct Sales or Direct Marketing Business.

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Saturday, August 21, 2010 – 9:00 am – 4:00 pm

Are you looking to Breakthrough some barriers in 2010? Don’t go it alone!!!

Jeffery Combs and Special Guests Jerry Clark and Casey Eberhart bring
“More Heart Than Talent” to Los Angeles!!

Location:
The Sheraton Grand Los Angeles
6101 West Century Blvd.
Los Angeles, CA 90045
Phone: 310-642-1111

Jeffery Combs, the President of Golden Mastermind Seminars, Inc. is an Internationally recognized speaker, author, and trainer, and has personally coached over 6,000 individuals worldwide.His training revolves around personal growth and development, cuts to the chase, and delivers information that makes an immediate impact on your success!During this special workshop, Jeff will be presenting new information from his 10-CD audio series Confessions of A Recovering Procrastinator to assist you to create the income you desire NOW!
   
Jerry Clark became a self-made millionaire while still in his 20’s.
Today, through his company Club Rhino, Inc., he conducts personal and professional development seminars around the World.The topics covered range from peak performance training, effective
communication strategies, and how to increase your productivity and profitability in your Direct Sales or Direct Marketing Business.Jerry is the producer of over 100 of the most empowering audio programs available in the Direct Sales / Direct Marketing industry. 
Many of which he is also the author, such as The Magic of Colors, Creating Magic, and The Magic of Influence

Jerry recognizes that change occurs at the individual level, and he’s committed to training others how to improve themselves by teaching peak performance strategies that get results.

   
No matter what business you’re in, this internationally recognized speaker and trainer is someone you deserve to know. Why? Because Casey Eberhart has connections! He’s made it his mission over the years to collect and connect: he collects relationships and connects people so they can do business together. He’s focused on your success. Entrepreneurs know this. Network Marketers know this and so will you. An outward expression of his ability to draw people together, Casey’s events are among the fastest growing in all of Southern California.Founder of the popular blog site, TheIdealNetworker.com, he’s sought after as a speaker and has led countless leadership seminars across the nation. Since the release of Stepping Stones to Success, a book he coauthored with Deepak Chopra and Mark Victor Hansen last fall, Casey Eberhart has been turning heads in the training industry. His formulas are simple and easy to learn. An entrepreneur most of his life, Casey has a special affinity for home based business. His training programs employ a series of easy to follow steps that will help you reach your true AWESOMENESS – whatever industry you’re in. 

Topics & Exercises:

  • The Psychology of A$king
  • Overcoming Procrastination
  • Recession Proof Your Business
  • Getting Money Right
  • The Psychology of Clo$ing
  • The psychology of Connecting & Creating Rapport
  • Effortlessly Neutralize ANY Objection!
  • Situational Prospecting
  • Prospecting Professionals
  • Communicating Effectively with Successful Entrepreneurs
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Jeff believes that changing isn’t nearly as difficult as you perceive.You already are a brilliant person, you’re a masterpiece in progress, and you have the ability to design your life rather than make a living. All of us experience turbulence at some point. True leaders rise above the fear that accompanies the turbulence.Fear can knock you down if you let it in. The leader who chooses to inspire reduces the impact of that turbulence and fear and brings safe passage to those who embark on the journey. Leadership starts at the top but it really begins in the heart.
“What does it truly mean to have heart?Heart is what separates the average from the exceptional.”
– Jeffery Combs

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